Hazrat Dahiya Kalbi (R.A) Heart wrenching event
Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi (RA) was very beautiful. The commentators write that his beauty was so great that Arab women used to stand behind the doors and see Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi Radi Allahu Anhu. But at that time you had not become a Muslim. One day, the eyes of Hazrat Muhammad Mustafa, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, fell on Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi. The Holy Prophet saw the face of Hazrat Dahiya Qaliwi he was such a handsome young man. You prayed to God at night; May Allah make such a beautiful young man, put the love of Islam in his heart, make him a Muslim, and save such an attractive young man from hell. At night he prayed, and in the morning, Hazrat Dahiyyah Al-Karbi (RA) attended the service of the Prophet (PBUH).
Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi (RA) said; O Messenger of Allah! Tell me, what commands have you brought? He said: I am the Messenger of Allah and Allah is One. He has no partner. Then he told Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi about Tawheed and Prophethood. Hazrat Dahiya said; Prophet of Allah, I may become a Muslim, but I am always afraid of one thing, a sin I have committed that your Allah will never forgive me. He said; O Dahiya, tell me what kind of sin you have committed. So Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi said; O Messenger of Allah, I am the head of my tribe. And with us, daughters are buried alive when they are born. Because I am the chief of the tribe, I have buried alive the daughters of seventy houses. Your Lord will never forgive me. At the same time Hazrat Gabriel Amin (peace be upon him) appeared;
O Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, Allah says Salam and says that what has been done up to now has been done, never commit such a sin after that. We have forgiven.
Hazrat Dahiya started crying after hearing this from your tongue. He said, "Dahiya, what has happened now?" why are you crying Hazrat Dahiyyah began to say; O Messenger of Allah, I have one more sin which your Lord will never forgive. He said: What kind of sin is dahiyyah? tell me
Hazrat Dahiya Qalb began to say; O Messenger of Allah, my wife was pregnant and I had to go to another country for some work. On my way, I told my wife that if a son was born, to raise him, if a daughter was born, to bury her alive. Dahiya is crying and narrating the incident. When I came back home after a long time, I knocked on the door. Meanwhile, a little girl opened the door and asked who? I said: Who are you? So the girl said; I am the daughter of the owner of this house. who are you Dahiya began to say; O Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, it came out of my mouth: If you are the daughter of the owner of this house, then I am the owner of this house. O Messenger of Allah! It was too late for the words to come out of my mouth when this little girl grabbed me by my legs and started saying; Baba Baba Baba Baba Where did you go? Baba, how long have I been waiting for you? Hazrat Dahiya is crying heartily and says; O Prophet of Allah! I pushed the daughter and went and asked the wife; Who is this girl? The wife started crying and said; Gift! This is your daughter. O Messenger of Allah! I felt no pity. I thought I was the chief of the tribe. If you don't bury your daughter, people will say that you keep burying our daughters and love your daughter. Tears began to flow from Hazrat Dahiya's eyes. O Messenger of Allah, that girl was very beautiful, very handsome. My heart wanted to hug him. Then he thought that people would not say these things later that when it was his daughter's turn, why didn't he bury her alive? I left the house after getting my daughter ready, my wife grabbed my feet. Don't hit him. Dahiya This is your daughter.
A mother is a mother after all. I pushed my wife back and walked with the baby.
On the way my daughter said; Dad, are you taking me to grandma's house? Dad, are you going to bring me toys? Dad, where are we going? Dahiya cries heartily and the incident is being narrated. O Messenger of Allah! I did not answer the girl's questions. She keeps asking where did Baba go? Sometimes she kisses my mouth, sometimes she puts her arms around my neck. But I don't say anything. Going to a place, I made him sit and started digging his grave myself. The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is hearing the incident from the language of Dahiya and is crying. When my daughter saw my father working hard in the sun, she got up and came to me. She takes off the small dupatta around her neck and wipes the sand from my face and says; Why is Baba working in the sun? Get into the shade. Why are dad digging this place? Baba, it is hot, come to the shade. And at the same time, my sweat and dirt are being cleaned. But I did not feel pity. Finally, when the grave was dug, my daughter came to me. I pushed. She fell into the grave and I started pouring sand. The girl, crying from the sand, folded her small hands in front of me and said; Baba, I don't take toys. Dad, I don't go to grandma's house. Baba, if I don't like my appearance, I never come before you. Dad don't hit me like that. Or sand was thrown into the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I did not even feel sorry to hear his words. When the clay was finished and her head was left, my daughter stopped paying attention to me and said; O my lord, I have heard that a prophet of yours will come who will honor the daughters. Who will save the honor of daughters. O Allah, send that prophet, the daughters are dying. Then I buried it in the sand. Hazrat Dahiyyah Qaliwi (RA) cried profusely while narrating the incident. When I told him about this incident, I saw him crying so much that his beard became wet with blessed tears. He said; Dahiya, tell the story of your daughter again. The story of the daughter who passed away while waiting for Muhammad. He heard this incident three times and wept so much that seeing him, the Companions started crying and said; O Dahiya, why does our master cry? We can't stand it. After hearing the incident three times from Hazrat Dahiya, Hazrat Dahiya was no longer crying. At that time Hazrat Jibraeel appeared and said; O Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him! Allah says Salam and says: O Beloved (PBUH)! Tell Dahiya that it was at the time when he disbelieved in Allah and you. Now he has accepted me and you, so we have also forgiven this sin of Dahiya. After that, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Whoever supported two daughters, brought them up, and performed their duties, he will be with me on the Day of Resurrection like the finger of Shahadat and the finger of his companion.” is.
The one who brought up two daughters has this importance, so what will be the importance of the one who brought up three or four or five daughters?
Do not panic at the birth of daughters, they have great faith in their parents and these daughters are a special mercy of Allah.
